Monday, 6 January 2014

Enter in to 2014 with Positivity


Today marks the official start of a New Year, as many of us are faced with the reality of going back to work, we are officially and truly ushering in yet another year of challenges and the realities of life. It is virtually the start to something new but yet old in our lives. We now look for ways to better our lives, make resolutions, and come up with more progressive ideas on how to face the challenges ahead, set new goals and ambitions and how we are going to achieve these goals etc. But another reality to this is that many of us at this time of the year are often faced with the realities that comes with the ending and beginning of a year, especially the realities that speaks to what we have or have not achieved in the past 365 days.


The obvious truth is that if we have not achieved anything significant in the past year, we are likely to fall into a state of negativity, self-pity and low morale (wrong mindsets), therefore the essence of this piece is to help you open the 2014 chapter of your life with confidence, belief and the necessary enthusiasm and how you are going to maintain this throughout 2014.



Look at it this way, everyone goes in to a new year with hopes of emerging victorious at the end but there is never a guarantee of that, a lot can happen in 365 days (both positive and negative). Life is never an open book, you may have worked hard to achieve your goals but the odds still came out against you based on a lot of factors, and that doesn't mean you have to stop dreaming, hoping and believing that your goals will be achieved. this is exactly the reason why you should prepare yourself to give it another go in 2014, continue to dream, make resolutions (even if it’s the same resolutions as last year's and the other past years of your life), bottom line is that you want to achieve those goals, all you need to do is to go in to the new year with Fresh ideas (lessons learned), Fresh approach, positive thinking and renewed Belief and a never give up approach (it is all about what you Believe), "Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve."



We need to realise that sometimes it is our own thinking that's keeping us from being our best, you in fact did achieved a lot in 2013 but because your focus is on the bigger achievements (Mostly material achievements, such as buying a new Car, House, Clothes etc.), you failed to realise and acknowledge what you perceive as small achievements (which in fact are bigger achievements and matters the most). You may have helped somebody who was desperately in need of your help and that help may have changed that Person’s life significantly, you may have written a motivational piece on a crucial day that may have claimed a person's life but because that person read your piece, they had a change in thinking and how they view life, you may have shared your food with someone on the streets or given them some  money, these are the little but big achievements that matters the most in our lives, we just don't realise it and categorise them as such.



So if you are going to enter in to 2014 with negative thoughts (I'm not good enough, I'm never going to achieve my goals, I've tried once too many times and have failed, I'm never going to break free from my old habits and addictions, this wasn't meant to be etc.), of cause you are going to fail, because you have already planted a negative seed in your head and that seed will stay there until you remove it yourself, change your mindset and start planting positive seeds in to your mind, think and speak positive, compliment your hard word with positivity, believe that your hard work will eventually pay off, believe that your break through is near, see the light at the end of the tunnel, believe that God wants you to travel that road in order for you to gain enough wisdom and experience to be able to better handle the bigger tasks in your life . He (God) wants you to be a life changer and the only way you are going to handle that task is when you have gone through the tough patches in your life (I call it his tough love). Learn to remove the wrong mindset and start thinking positively because you are a champion.

Always remember and acknowledge that you are smart, you have potential, and you are able and talented. In fact your God given talents are the key to your success, step in to 2014 with those talents as your guns into battle, those talents are the ammunition that you will use to give life yet another go. Always be thankful that God gave you those talents to move your life forward, use them as your bargaining tools in 2014, be confident about them, negotiate your path to success using those talents, don't be shy to expose them, don't be afraid to use them (life is unpredictable so give it a go Now).

Things may have gone wrong in your life in 2013, but the good News is that you are still alive and you can turn things around, you are about to walk in to a New year, new chapter, new begging, new ideas, new and endless possibilities. You are a Champion of your own destiny, get rid of your insecurities and start running the race as a champ because you were born a champ, you are a winner in this race called "life", you are destined to win it but it is you and your thought-line that will determine whether you cross the finish line or not.



Forget about 2013 because it is now in the past, forget about the mistakes you made in 2013 (but learn from them) and the opportunities you missed out on, forgive and forget about those who wronged you in 2013, forget about who says what about you and your efforts and just run your own race, be yourself, be a little bit crazy this year, apply a bit of vigour in all your endeavors this year, continue to maintain your hope and truly believe that you are about to make it.

Walk in to 2014 with confidence, belief, faith, positivity, freedom from wrong mindsets, freedom from excuses, zeal for life, superiority, boldness because "you were born to be great"


Happy New Year, Happy New Beginnings, Happy 20Fortunes..................

 #MeditationsOfTheHeart